Winning My Ex Back

Help! Is there a Way to Win My Ex Back?

You’ve been in a committed relationship for some time now until things hit a rough patch. Due to one major reason or an accumulation of reasons, the love of your life has now become your ex. You want to get him or her back – but what are you supposed to do when your ex won’t even give you the time of day? Help is on the way and by merely sending one text message, you can win your ex back.

Click here to read  more about  the“Text Your Ex Back” System by Michael Fiore.

When couples break up, the first instinct of the unfortunately dumped party is to beg for the other person’s forgiveness. Let’s say that you’re a woman who would like to win your ex back. Forget about the reasons why you broke up in the first place. If you want to bring back your relationship to an even keel, you have to avoid the following: - Keep on sending him “Please forgive me” messages on his voice mail or through text. - Keep on hanging out at the places which he frequents in the hope that he will see how mindblowingly attractive you are again, and accept you back into his life. - Leaving rambling and sometimes drunk messages for him to hear or receive.

No matter how much your instinct is telling you to do these things, they are a big no-no especially if you want to win him back. What you can do instead is study a system called “Text Your Ex Back” by Michael Fiore. It is a step-by-step system which uses text messages sent from your mobile phone – which will cause your ex to connect with you again on a primal level.

The system will also let you in on powerful text messages like text judo, intimacy booster texts, green eyed monster texts and emotional honesty texts. You will learn about the exact seven words that you need to send to him in the form of a text message, which will relive his desire for your body. More importantly, the author offers astounding tips on what to do after you get him back into your life.

With “Text Your Ex Back”, you would not have to go begging for your ex to welcome you back into his or her life. Through amazingly simple text messages, you will remind your ex why you got together in the first place and revive that love that you have for each other.

 

“10 Mistakes You Must Stop Now To Have Any Chance At Winning Back Your Lover

“10 Mistakes You Must Stop Now To Have Any Chance At Winning Back Your Lover— And How to Get Your Ex Back…” PLUS a little extra homework that will put a leash on your partner’s heart and pull them back in before it’s too late.

Read if you’re hurting from a recent break up…

OK, I’ve got some really important things to go over with you if you’re going to get your ex back. Time is of the essence, so I’m going to be as quick as possible.

I could tell you some things about me. Like I used to make big mistakes in my relationships… Did some embarrassing things while trying to get one in particular back… I learned a lot, had some success and now help other guys and girls get their EXes back…

…but really we don’t have time to go over my background in full yet. I’ll give you a chance later to give me your email and I’ll tell you more about me.

For now, we gotta get focused on some MAJOR F*@K UPs statistics say you’re most likely to make right now.

People who are in deep pain from a break up have a tendency to do the exact OPPOSITE of what you should do. So I’m acting fast to try and get you to stop before any damage is done.

In any disaster the first step is to stop the bleeding and then fix the problem.

Your relationship is no different. There may be some underlying problems with your relationship that must be fixed, but we can get to that next. Right now we need to STOP the bleeding.

So here’s the plan. I’m going to give some blunt advice. Not because I’m mean, but because you need it now more than ever. There’s no time to waste.

The first thing you need to do is STOP acting in a way that your lover is biologically predisposed to NOT feel attraction for.

That means being weak, passive and overly-agreeable. For biological and evolutionary reasons we don’t need to get in to now, women seek strong men who can protect them. And men don’t respect women who let them get away with everything (which means you’ll be habitually cheated on).

I know, after a break up it’s hard to give off the appearance of being strong. But it’s absolutely vital. And it’s not as hard as you think if you’ll just agree not to make these 10 mistakes.

We’ll start with 10 mistakes to quickly stop the damage, and then we’ll move on to some homework and point you to the materials you’ll need.

DAMAGE CONTROL

10 mistakes that convince your lover they made the right choice OK, first the 10 mistakes. Then there’s some homework for you to do to lure your lover back.

People who get hurt are often the people who say they don’t want to play “games.” You know what? Too bad. The game is being played whether you know it’s your turn or not.

Men and women are constantly testing each other subconsciously to see if you’re a good choice for a long term mate. If you refuse to play along, you’re going to be left out.

You’ll find you can prove yourself worthy by avoiding these 10 mistakes.

MISTAKE #1: Acting Overly Nice And Believing It Makes You A Great Catch How many times do you have to hear the cliché “nice guys (or girls) finish last” before you finally get it?

You can’t simply go along with everything your partner says and expect to have a great relationship.

Think of it this way. Every good story has conflict, right? Star Wars had good guys and bad guys. And in a similar way so did Pretty Woman and all other romantic comedies.

Conflict makes things interesting. And a relationship without conflict is BORING.

Being too nice comes across as being too passive, insecure, anxious, and predictable. That’s BORING.

Want to find that “spark” with someone special? Then don’t forget that it takes friction to create a spark. Stand your ground.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To Persuade Your Ex To Come Back With Logic You cannot argue or logically persuade your way back into a relationship. Sure, you can argue yourself out of one just fine, but it doesn’t work in reverse.

You can’t convince a person to like you, love you or want to be with you. Emotions don’t work that way.

A person’s heart is reactive, not logical. So instead of trying to talk them back in to it, there are some things you need to DO to get their heart to respond.

In the homework I have for you we’ll talk more about ways to get your EXes heart fluttering for you again. But that comes in a minute. Moving on…

MISTAKE #3: Playing The Role Of Human Doormat I hope this doesn’t describe you…

So many people plead with their ex, “Please stay, I’ll do anything you want…”

NO! Don’t do it. That doesn’t make for a romantic relationship. It may turn you in to a sex buddy for a short time, but they will lose all respect for you.

That means as soon as something better comes along, you’re gone. Do NOT beg to be taken back.

MISTAKE #4: Showering Your Ex With Flowers And Gifts Ever heard, “Can’t Buy Me Love?”

Maybe it’s time you gave it a listen again. Flowers and gifts are best used to say THANK YOU or I LIKE/LOVE YOU. But it does NOT build attraction.

In fact, it can be a repellent. It tells your ex you don’t believe you’re good enough to be taken back on your own merits… so you pad the package with presents to cover up flaws. That’s an attraction-killer! Don’t do it.

MISTAKE #5: Saying “I Love You” Every 5 Minutes It’s so easy to fall into this fatal trap of telling your ex-lover how much they mean to you and how much you love them… mistakenly believing once they “get” how much you love them they’ll come running back.

WRONG! It doesn’t work like that, or even close.

Smothering your ex with affection right now is not romantic. And despite what you may think, “But I really, really like you,” is not what your ex wants to hear.

Your strong feelings may in fact be the very thing that pushed your ex away to begin with. (Because it can come across as needy.)

MISTAKE #6: Missing The Whole Point Of Chemistry Too many people completely miss the point of attracting the opposite sex because they do things that would attract themselves or others like them… in other words, people of the same gender.

No, I’m not saying you’re gay or even that you’re acting gay.

I’m just saying men and women are attracted to different things. You can’t use the same tactics that would work on you to woo a person of the opposite sex.

For example men are mainly attracted to a woman’s appearance while women are attracted to personality.

That doesn’t mean men should stop working on their appearance or that women should stop trying to be good people. But it does mean you need to make an effort to work on the things that will attract your partner.

We’re going to work on this in your homework. But for now just realize you need to know what attracts your EX and work on that.

Then you can work on learning the subtle body language cues and emotional hot-buttons turn them on without them even knowing it. (This is advanced stuff that sounds like voodoo, but it works! And we’ll cover it in your homework.)

MISTAKE #7: Giving Your Ex All Your Power Do NOT act like your life is over if your ex splits.

This simply surrenders all power to your ex and makes you look like a pathetic wuss they can walk all over. That’s NOT attractive and it will only last until someone new comes along.

You absolutely MUST keep the respect of your ex if you want a chance at winning them back.

(If you fear you’ve already lost their respect, you can get it back. We’ll discuss that in your homework.)

MISTAKE #8: The Looks And Money Trap Our culture makes it so easy for people to believe that looks and money are all people care about.

But you know what? People really aren’t that shallow. Especially after you’ve been involved in a close relationship with the person.

Looks and money are not the foundations of a lasting relationship. They’re window dressing, and window dressing always gets tired after a time.

Some people make the mistake of saying… “I’ll lose 15 pounds and then they’ll want me back.”

NO! You need to take action now. You’re doing that now by putting an end to the 10 most common mistakes, and then following up with your homework from then on.

MISTAKE #9: Mis-Reading The Cues There’s usually a window when your ex is giving you a chance to make things right. But you NEED to read the cues to know when this window is, when it isn’t, and how to respond the way they’re hoping you will.

This part gets a little advanced, but you can learn from people who have studied human behavior, especially man/woman dynamics and romantic relationships.

When you get good at it you can begin to influence (or what some call “manipulate”) and gain control over any interaction with your ex by giving cues and signals of your own.

I could tell you some things about me.

Like I used to make big mistakes in my relationships… Did some embarrassing things while trying to get one in particular back… decided to take a new approach, did some studying, got her back, and now help other guys and girls get their EXes back…

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP Again, most people start a painful break up by making mistake after mistake. It’s a hard time for anyone to know what to do… but there is a right and a wrong way to try and win your ex back.

It makes some people uncomfortable but if you take the time to learn some things about psychology and people’s basic needs and desires from a partner, you can regain control and pull your partner’s heart back in to yours.

But you’ve gotta make the effort, and that means getting help. You’ve taken the first step by reading these 10 mistakes. Now it’s time to get to the homework.

Stop All Those Mistakes Now And You’ll Stop The Damage…

HOMEWORK TIME:  How To Get Your Ex Back It’s time to learn a few tricks and – sorry to say – some mischievous and clever manipulations to get your EXes heart and full attention back.

Your homework is listening to an audio a buddy of mine made about getting your ex back. His name is Matt Huston and I’ve been doing business with him for years, so I know he’s a good guy.

He also happens to have a degree in psychology, is a master of relationships and spends his time as a “pick-up artist.” Some people are turned off by pick-up artists because they have a reputation for being slutty (because girls throw themselves at them).

But he’s not teaching you how to be promiscuous here – he’s teaching you how to get your ex back. So I highly recommend putting judgments aside and learning from an expert.

I’ll send you over to his audio lesson in just a moment. But first…

I’ve got a confession to make…

Even though I’m recognized as an expert on relationships and reversing break ups, I’m not invincible. Recently there was one guy I couldn’t seem to help at all.

His name’s Jeremiah and he was absolutely devastated after his girlfriend dumped him. Jeremiah saw it coming a mile a way but didn’t know how to fix it.

Not knowing what to say or do… he just froze and hoped it would all go away. But then it DID happen and he was forced to make a decision – give up or try to get her back.

He wanted to get her back but his best move so far was telling her he loved her. (Bad move as we covered in mistake #5.)

Jeremiah also humiliated himself by begging for her back to no avail. (That’s mistake #2.) And predictably it didn’t work, all she wanted was to be friends.

Everything changed when he ran in to this… “Discover Dirty Psychological Tricks To Quickly & Easily Win An Ex Back After A Breakup…” Those aren’t my words and those aren’t my dirty psychological tricks. Those are Matt Huston’s.

Matt Huston is a MASTER of human behavior and relationships. Literally! He has his masters degree in psychology.

And Matt was able to teach my friend Jeremiah all kinds of things about male-female dynamics that I wasn’t able to.

Jeremiah ordered Matt’s course and started cruising through the system.

It put a metaphorical mirror right in front of his face so he could see everything he was doing wrong. Turns out, as predicted, all of his instinctual moves were just pushing his EX away. (This is extremely common.)

But the real fun started when Jeremiah started putting Matt’s system to work. Instead of playing the role of a scorned lover, he started behaving like a person who deserved his EX’s love.

As Jeremiah tells it, it wasn’t long before his EX was calling to talk and not long after that they were back together.

And Matt helps couples like that reunite all the time. Seriously.

In fact, check this fact out about his Ex-Back website.

FACT: 83.6% Success Rate

Yes, an astonishing 83.6% success rate.

I’m in the business, so I can vouch that’s extremely high. And since I’ve gotten to know Matt he’s told me where that number comes from. Here’s what he did…

Matt found 73 people who were looking on online forums to get back with their ex. They were of all different ages and several different countries (America, Canada, Australia, India, Russia, Poland and Germany and a few others).

Out of 73 test subjects 61 out of 73 people responded they had successfully gotten back with their ex. That’s an 83.6% success rate!

Matt is the real deal.

So here’s your homework…

You need to jump over to Matt Huston’s Website and listen to the audio that starts playing.

Why? That’s the very same audio that started Jeremiah on his path to getting his ex back.

And your homework is to check out his site and listen to the free audio he has for you that describes his system.

Why? That’s the very same audio that started Jeremiah on his path to getting his ex back.

And your homework is to check out his site and listen to the free audio he has for you that describes his system.

Matt’s system is a brutally honest “secrets revealed” blueprint to getting your ex back, even if some of it seems a bit unethical. And it plain WORKS.

Here’s just some of what Matt can teach you… ·         What to do and how to act if your ex is already dating someone.

·         The absolute key to getting your ex to EAGERLY contact you again, without any resistance!

·         A potent and EXTREMELY powerful 3 step seduction blueprint to get them lusting after you again.

·         4 super powerful techniques you can use immediately to make your ex super jealous. They’ll be the one crawling back to you after trying these out!

Click the link below that fits you and you’ll be taken to Matt’s site. The audio will play right away. When it’s done you should definitely keep reading down the page though (because there’s a lot more advice).

HOMEWORK: Listen To Matt Huston’s Personal Audio Now,  Click Here If You’re A Woman

Click Here If You’re A Man

Tips On Winning Your Ex Back

Tips On Winning Your Ex Back.   A relationship that you cherished may be over, but what if you’re not over your ex and you believe the relationship can be repaired? Here’s how you can convince your ex to give it another go.

Steps To Take After Break Up:

1. Understand the break-up.    What did each of you do to contribute to the break-up? The odds are that it wasn’t a one-sided problem. Realizing what you did wrong will help strengthen the relationship if you get back together. And if nothing else, it will help you avoid similar mistakes in future relationships.

2. Find out if they are still interested.   Before you start doing anything to try and win back your ex’s heart, you need to know for sure whether they still care or not. Knowing if your ex still cares about you is the first most important clue and hint that things can still be mended.

3. Avoid contact for the first two weeks after the break-up. They will call you if they want to talk. If they don’t, nothing you say or wear will change that. Sometimes, ignoring your ex makes them feel like you are perfectly fine without them and are moving on, which is the exact opposite of what they want.

4. Focus on yourself. Hang out with your friends. Throw yourself into work and other extracurricular activities. You don’t want to seem needy or like you are waiting for your ex to contact you again.

 

5. Take a good look at yourself. When you first fell in love with your partner, what type of a person were you? When things fall apart, others will tell you that people change. However, you should take a moment and think “HaveI changed? Am I a better, happier person now than I was then?” If you can honestly say you haven’t changed for the better, perhaps you’ve defaulted to some bad habits or let your fears and worries get the best of you

6. Do not stop them from seeing other people. If you start to complain and whine, you will instantly drive your ex away to that third party. Human nature is such that the more you stop them from having something, the more they want it. On the other hand, respect their choices and freedom. Do not let jealousy set in. Trust that if there was true happiness between you and if your ex wants to be happy, they’ll eventually see that getting back together is the best choice. They just need time to get through the fog of whatever caused your breakup.

 

Reintroduce Yourself

1.   Alter your appearance. Get a few items of new clothing, alter your hairstyle or do your nails. Make yourself stand out and seem fresh from what your ex remembers of you. Make sure this change is subtle and not over the top.

 

2. Spend time with other people. You don’t need to sleep with them, but spending time with other men or women will let your ex know that you are on the prowl. If they are still interested, they will step in and interject this.

 

3. Be the person they fell in love with. Your ex was attracted to you because they felt good with you and you were fulfilling their emotional needs. How have you changed (if at all)? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. Be positive around them. Laugh and smile. Always stay positive to feel good about yourself and make yourself attractive to others.

 

4.  Be available. Having people want to date you is enough to make your ex jealous. You don’t need to actually date other people. This will only confuse your ex, because it’ll make them think you’re over them, or that you’re deliberately trying to make them jealous. Taking a break from relationships will not only show that you still have feelings for your ex, but it will also demonstrate maturity and lack of neediness.

 

5. Casually hang out with them again. Do something non-committal like have a drink with friends or play miniature golf. Make it Something friends and first dates alike can do. And whatever it is, keep it fun and skip out on the serious talks for now.

 

6.  Fill the gap. If you struggle with neediness, you’re probably a little lacking in the self-esteemdepartment. You might be looking for your ex to make you feel better about yourself, but the fact is that you are the only person who can really do that. You shouldn’t base your happiness on someone else. It makes them feel guilty, obligated and eventually, resentful towards you.

 

 Have a Relationship Discussion

1.  Invite your ex to talk to you. Express regret things weren’t working out between you and ask if you can talk about it now that you have some perspective. Ask if what went wrong was related to what you’ve been working on. Your ex may have a different perspective.

 

 2.  Prepare your first words. The first thing that you say to your ex is extremely important. If you say the wrong words, you will lose the chance to get them back. You need to understand that even though you’re not together, there is a good chance they still harbor strong feelings for you.

3. Use the past to your advantage. If they’ve ever complimented an outfit of yours, wear it again. Or share a light-hearted memory you had together. Meet at a familiar place you used to hang out together.

 

4. Apologize. Think deeply about anything you did or didn’t do that somehow contributed to the downfall of the relationship, and clean the slate by giving your ex a proper apology. Take full responsibility for the offense, without blaming them, giving excuses, or expecting an apology (or even forgiveness) in return. It may very well be that they contributed to the situation, but you cannot apologize for them; you can only apologize for yourself. Leave them out of it and odds are the apology will be reciprocated.

—Offer the apology in person. Tell them you just need to get something off your chest and all they need to do is listen

—Avoid using the word “but”. (“I am sorry, but…” means “I am not sorry.”) Also, do not say “I’m sorry you feel that way” or “I’m sorry if you were offended.” This makes it seem like you are blaming the other person, and is not a real apology.

—A true apology should be structured as follows: Offense, empathy, amends, thanks. Example: “I just wanted to say I’m sorry for the times when you wanted to spend time with me, and I blew you off. You must’ve felt really neglected. In the future, I’m going to try really hard to pay attention to the people I care about so that this does not happen again. Thanks for helping me realize that.”

 

 

Do it via text! Using The (#1 International Best Seller TEXT YOUR EX BACK System*)

Another great way to get your ex back is to do it via modern communication methods. With text messages, you have time to think about your actions and consider what you are going to say (text) to your ex. You can even look at tested and proven text message examples which have helped people getting back together with their ex here.

There is actually quite a lot of psychology in this method as it makes your ex miss you purely due to the fact that he is unable to contact you physically. With text messages you can pretend that you have moved on, act confident and give the impression that you have got the better of the breakup which will make your ex want to get back together. And you can do all this without having to look into your ex’s eye. All you have to do is press your phone’s buttons!